Motivation 

I wrote this two years ago and I don’t think I’d change a thing.
He is my steady rock. He is the one encouraging me to try and assuring me no matter what he will always be my Daddy.

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For my Daddy the motivation in why he agreed to be my dominant is not because he must be right or that he enjoys getting his way or that he needs to have total compliance by me. He is doing this because I asked for it and he wants to please me and give me what I want. To me this seems somewhat counterintuitive to what a Dom should be. Is it though?

He is just not the type of person that thrives on control. That is not what he gets from this.

I need to feel the structure and the guidance from him. I love the feeling of safety knowing he is in control brings me. I have the strong need to do things for him that show my appreciation. These things give me his attention that I so desperately long for. Through this I am getting what I…

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I May Just Have to Live It

This book is set up as a daily meditation but I don’t read them daily. I’ve been working on this book for well more than a year. So when I do read I will usually do a couple. Daddy instructed to read this morning which I do enjoy. I read two and neither really hit me so I figured one more. SHEESH this one was meant for me today.

The Book of Awakening – Mark Nepo
October 7
Until We Live It
“We come with all these parts and no instructions how they go together.”
It is so tempting to want the answers before we begin the journey. We like to know our way. We like to have maps. We like to have guides. But we are more like a breathing puzzle, a living bag of pieces, and each day shows us what a piece or two is for, where it might go, how it might fit. Over time, a picture starts to emerge by which we begin to understand our place in the world.

Unfortunately, we waste a lot of time seeking someone to tell us what life will be like once we live it. We drain ourselves of vital inner fortitude by asking others to map our way. At the end of all this stalling, though, we each have to venture out and simply see what happens.

The instructions are in the living, and I confess that of all the times I thought I liked this or didn’t care for that, not one was of my choosing or yours. For as the Earth was begun like a dish breaking, eternity is that scene slowly reversing, and you and I and the things we’re drawn to are merely the pieces of God unbreaking back together.

I don’t care for change but I am in dire need of change in my workplace. I have decided to apply for a training program outside of work. It will actually get me back on the path I intended on going down 15+ years ago. I have the paper degree but not the field experience. I have Zero confidence (nothing new for me.) If accepted, this will get me specific training with a forced mentorship program. I am sick to stomach every time I think of it. Back in the classroom, homework, meeting new people, networking BLECH, and eventually changing jobs.

I have been running Daddy down with the What If’s. From not getting in, to getting in. completing, landing a job making double what I make now and Then hating it. Lmao I’m peppering a few I know in the field with questions in hopes of… I have no idea. Hope they tell me No don’t do it you won’t make it? I don’t know. Of course they have all been so positive and encouraging. DAMMIT lol

I can’t see the end. I can’t be sure if it will be worth it or not. What if I don’t get accepted. Now I’ve told all of you and I will have to tell you I failed. Where are those fucking tissues?

Stripped Naked

“When you armor up against vulnerability you shut yourself off from everything that you do and that you love.” “Get naked, get really real, put yourself out there.”

– Brené Brown: Why Your Critics Aren’t The Ones Who Count

Have you ever been stripped naked? Like since you were five? Not in the heat of passion or beginning lovemaking but stripped naked by another in simply a caretaking way. Slowly, in full light with nothing hiding your body and direct eye contact.

My heart swells with love.

Open and Vulnerable with you Daddy. ❤️

Wonder Woman

Daddy and I finally watched the Wonder Woman movie last night. I have been eager to see this movie because I ROCKED the Wonder Woman Underoos as a child.

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I loved the movie. A kick ass Brunette Female superhero. YES!

I did not anticipate bawling my eyes out in the middle of the movie. Daddy had to stop it while I gathered myself and he was probably confused because no one had died and no animals were injured. lol

Diana could not understand why the fighting continued. She believed mankind was good and it was only this evil influence perpetuating the war. Her innocent beliefs were shattered and I felt it and understood.

Diana Prince: I killed him, why are they doing this? Why are they still fighting?

Steve Trevor: Because maybe it’s them! Maybe people aren’t always good, Ares or no Ares. Maybe it’s just who they are.

I just don’t get the world at times. Most times. I cannot take the anger and hatred. The selfishness and egotistical attitudes.

I am a light and love kind of person.

To Be Human – Sia featuring Labrinth

To be human is to love

Even when it gets too much

I’m not ready to give up

To be human is to love

Even when it gets too much

I’m not ready to give up