I think we got this.
Is it going to look like my original fantasy? No. It will be a version that is more realistic and fits us.
When we talked I kept giving him different examples and then I would say but that isn’t us.
I told him it’s like a perfume commercial. We are not perfume commercial people. I’m finally ok with the fact we don’t need to be. We can make this fit us. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. The ONLY thing that matters is that we are happy. I am happier than ever. So if Daddy would prefer his babygirl be comfortable in footie pj’s so be it. 😀