I have tried to get Daddy to reach out for support in learning about his D/s role. He’s really not interested. Tried to get him to chat he says he just hates chat even if it is for a work support thing.
In the beginning it was really hard to hear others talk about how their D’s were talking to others and getting ideas or working through rough spots. Honestly it still is hard to hear that. Mine is just not interested.
I have found it HUGELY helpful. I am not one to talk about even vanilla difficulties with anyone. Not my best friend or mother or sister. I don’t talk intimately with anyone until now. Through chat and blog it has been so beneficial to me on this journey. Just today i got much needed help calming me down and pushing me forward. Really i felt like throwing in the towel and telling him to fuck off. Damn Bitch.
He isn’t getting that support and while I think it would help is it really needed? Do some just get through this on their own?