I think we have been outed to a degree.
Today at a big family lunch for the mother in law one of our kids says to me “I watched 50 shades so now I know what that thing is in your bathroom”. I made a rope flogger and it has been hanging on the back of the door for months. Then the 15 year old says LOUD from across the table “What the flogger?” OMG I was just dumbfounded that she said it. I attempted to steer the conversation back to the adult toy store we had been talking about. lmao I’m not shy of the topic but Uh wow Daddy and I were both a little red. The table was very long so those that heard only included my sister and brother in law and maybe nephew but still – omg.
So earlier in the day when I “joked” I was going to turn the kid’s room into a “red room” when she moved out and she said it was too small and I said “I don’t know” as I made swinging motions with my arm…… oy vey
It makes me wonder if they suspect or assume the D/s part.