Stay longer than you want to. Deal with your childhood programming getting triggered that tells you “fuck this” I can do better on my own. Only then will the teaching wind its way into your nervous system so that you automatically respond in a way that inspires others and allows you to Be a certain way, rather than simply act a certain way.
This made me think of the start of my submissive journey. I had to turn off all the bullshit programming that got in the way of what I truly wanted.
If you want your life to unfold as a work of art that expresses the boundless expanse of your consciousness, of who you truly are as a man, Fuck Hacking, Go Deep!
Balls Deep! No seriously well yes really but … There are no shortcuts to deep intimacy. You must pay the price in time and vulnerability.